Our Human Tendency

People were created to be loved.
Things were created to be used.
The reason why the world is in such chaos now is because things are being loved and people are being used.

Life is about loss, it's about having a certain amount of time in your life and nothing more.
If we do it right, we don't need more than the time we have.
People come and go, just as like how we always will, and there is no motive or intent behind loss, it's simply the way of life.

The purpose of loss in our lives is to make us value what we do have when we have it, and to know that in this moment, what we have is ours and it's enough. Through every loss, lessons are learnt, learn how to let go, learn that loss is not to be feared or hated, it is but the only reason people cherish life so much.

Being alone sometimes sucks and it makes our souls dark. Using people doesn't make anyone better, however, it just spreads the chaos.

Hatred and influences

Lesson of the day ~

Throughout our lives, people influence us in ways both large and small.
People may affect our moods, our simplest of actions and decision.
For those who have a greater influence on us, they will have the ability to change our entire perspective on life.

If you are doing a good job, there will always be haters.
You can never make everyone happy.
Even when you are a crowd-pleaser, you will still come across those individuals who feel the need to throw some hatred in your way.
This isn't a pessimistic way of viewing the world, it is simply the reality that we live in.
Accept this truth and you can over the obstacles these individuals throw your way.

People don't hate other people because they find something in those individuals worthy of such a horrible status.
People hate other people because it's the easiest way to cope with their own failures and insufficiency.

If you want to hurt someone, truly hurt someone, then all you need to do is pretend that person does not exist. There is nothing man fears more than holding absolutely no importance. Show the people who hate that they are invisible to you and they will either break or will move on to another target.