Embrace it

To my two bimbo buddies out there...
One female bimbo & one male bimbo...

Whenever something goes wrong, people will always try to offer you advice, sometimes it will be a good and useful one, and other times it will be a pretty bad one.

But understand that these "helpers" are merely speaking from their own experiences are earnestly trying to help you. Though occasionally, it may feel like you are under scrutiny as you simply try to heal in your own way. However, relationships always end for different reasons, sometimes, the connection two people share simply just fades away. Other times, the drama and hurt become too much to bear.

So what types advice? Some people will tell you to "Get out there and meet new people" and others will tell you "Don't take too soon, you are not ready". Don't let such contradiction overwhelm you, instead, realize that these suggestions are evidence that we all nurse our wounds in different ways that work for us differently individually.

Though, right now you may feel like you are on an emotional roller coaster, know that trying to numb the feelings rather than embrace them will only lead them to stick around longer. Sure, it's great to get out of your rut for a bit, but remember to make time for the bad days too. Give yourself a chance to understand yourself more through some reflection.

You may feel hurt or maybe even guilty, but contacting your ex is not the solution either. Remember, your emotions are a bit unpredictable right now although you are still putting a strong self infront of us. Think about what you would tell a drunken friend that wanting to call an ex?

You had probably suggest the person to put away the phone and call in the morning? Why? Of course is to provide enough time to sober up and decide if calling is really necessary. Avoid regret where it's easy. Possibly the most crucial part of moving forward is letting go of hope for a reunion or banking on the notion that it will somehow work again down the road. We are tired of telling you the same things over and over again. Too much BROmance for you is not helping either, as difficult as it may be to hear, the only way to move forward when you lose love is to embrace it.

This the last time that I am going to say this. He or she is not a part of your future anymore, you may be telling yourself that you could both change and that some day it may work again, but the only person you can control is you. Be honest and good to yourself like please? Regardless of whether or not it's possible that it could happen, waiting for a reunion will bar you from moving forward. You will be forever measuring the people you meet against the ones you are waiting to return. Of course I know that no one will ever be able to replace another person, every romantic connection we experience is different. So, save yourself wasted time and move forth with an open mind. Embrace the closure that you can only achieve from accepting a future that doesn't include the person you ONCE loved.