Don't let her go to sleep upset, because, she will only toss and turn in frustration, until sadness or watching cartoon pulls her into sleep, and tears stain her pillow. You will be her first though when she wakes up, and more than anything, she will wish she could go back to sleep, back to the silence, to the empty blackness. Don't do this to her, don't let her go to sleep upset, she's worth so much more ... if she wasn't, she wouldn't care.