Knock, and it shall be opened to you...

Having a bad day? Everything will be alright eventually, now you are a little stronger than you were yesterday.
Don't give up and don't give in, don't let one or two dark clouds cover the entire sky.
The sun is always shining on some part of your life.
Sometimes, you just have to forget how you feel, remember what you deserve and keep pushing forward.

It's common that we've all made mistakes, we've all made absolute fools of ourselves. We've let people take advantages of us. When the day is really dark, it can be hard to see the light but you have to try. True strength comes when you have much to cry and complain about, but you prefer to smile and appreciate your life instead. There are blessings hidden in every struggle you face, but you have to be willing to open your heart and mind to see them.

Don't let a hard lesson harden your heart, life's best lessons are often learned at the worst time and from the worst mistakes. There will be times when it seems like everything that could possibly go wrong is going wrong. And you might feel like you will be stuck in this rut forever, but trust me, you won't. When you feel like giving up, remember that sometimes things have to go very wrong before they can be right. You have to go through the worst in order to arrive at your best.

Find the strength to laugh everyday.
Find the courage to feel different, yet beautiful.
Find it in your heart to make others smile too.
Don't stress over things that you can't change.
Live simply, love generously, speak truthfully and work diligently.
And even if you fall short, keep going, keep growing...

What Doesn’t Kill You Can Make You Stronger

In order for my life lesson or mistakes to make me stronger, I have to learn from them.
To figure out where I went wrong.

What could I have done differently?
What could I have done more efficiently?
What should I have avoided?
What could I have interpreted in a different manner?
What is it that I am missing?

If I can learn from it then it is not consider time or energy wasted.
I can't pick and choose the manner or speed in which I learn from my life lessons.
Only life gets to decide that. Making changes, both big and small allow us to learn new things and also restore a bit of faith in ourselves. Having faith in ourselves is never a bad thing and it's something most of us could stand to do a bit more often.

P/S: You have come so far, don't give up, don't go back to the dark side... Keep fighting ~

The rain always stops, eventually...

Throughout my life, there will always be tough times, the question is... Will I bounce back or bounce backwards? After every rainstorm, the sun will ultimately rear its face.

Boys will sit and pout.
Men will focus on how to make themselves better tomorrow.

Stagnancy during times of despair is a clear cut sign of immaturity isn't it?
I am trying hard to stay positive and focus on progression.

I feel that I only get a certain endurance allotment before I eventually break. It even hurt innocent people around me.

Not every person is born with a silver spoon in his or her mouth and the ones who aren't must definitely work harder to achieve anything. It is undeniable that there are others who get whatever they want without breaking a sweat.

How many times I have heard someone complain about how "Life is unfair", even myself are complaining about it. There are so many things in lives that I so badly want it to work, but sometimes, things just don't go my way.

Trying so hard to stay in control of things and people, it somehow ends up with a bit of disappointment, frustration and even heartbroken. Little by little, I am losing myself in the process.

# My dear EDWIN, you screw up badly... You really need to freaking grow up and learn to be a better person... Wake up your bloody idea, you got nothing under your name that people can rely on. You are still nothing and therefore, you got no rights to be moody nor vent anger on anybody around you.

If you have a bad day or really moody, try cut ties with the world for the moment, goes into 'ghost mode' like what you are good at previously... Avoid saying nasty stuff and things that you don't really meant it. It's a mistake that can never turn back once the wrong words are used. That way, you can minimize the chances that you affecting other people's mood or even ruined their day for no good reason.

If people don't like what you are doing or feeling burden over it, you should simply stop doing it rather than continually being a annoying pest. If people skipped what you said,  you should jolly well accept the fact that he/she want to avoid that particular topic because he/she didn't really like or keen about it and stop trying to bring up that particular topic again.  Oh well...

Boreeed

I am sick and tired of being sick and tired...

Keep waiting... 

Our Human Tendency

People were created to be loved.
Things were created to be used.
The reason why the world is in such chaos now is because things are being loved and people are being used.

Life is about loss, it's about having a certain amount of time in your life and nothing more.
If we do it right, we don't need more than the time we have.
People come and go, just as like how we always will, and there is no motive or intent behind loss, it's simply the way of life.

The purpose of loss in our lives is to make us value what we do have when we have it, and to know that in this moment, what we have is ours and it's enough. Through every loss, lessons are learnt, learn how to let go, learn that loss is not to be feared or hated, it is but the only reason people cherish life so much.

Being alone sometimes sucks and it makes our souls dark. Using people doesn't make anyone better, however, it just spreads the chaos.

Hatred and influences

Lesson of the day ~

Throughout our lives, people influence us in ways both large and small.
People may affect our moods, our simplest of actions and decision.
For those who have a greater influence on us, they will have the ability to change our entire perspective on life.

If you are doing a good job, there will always be haters.
You can never make everyone happy.
Even when you are a crowd-pleaser, you will still come across those individuals who feel the need to throw some hatred in your way.
This isn't a pessimistic way of viewing the world, it is simply the reality that we live in.
Accept this truth and you can over the obstacles these individuals throw your way.

People don't hate other people because they find something in those individuals worthy of such a horrible status.
People hate other people because it's the easiest way to cope with their own failures and insufficiency.

If you want to hurt someone, truly hurt someone, then all you need to do is pretend that person does not exist. There is nothing man fears more than holding absolutely no importance. Show the people who hate that they are invisible to you and they will either break or will move on to another target.