People always say that if two people can make it through arguments or fights, the relationship will get stronger. I am not just referring to those girlfriend/boyfriend but also to those best friend kind of relationship.
It is like the more you go through with someone, the more the relationship are being tested and this helps it to grow and become stronger. However, conflict does not necessarily always bring two people closer, of course, the reason why conflict exists at all would be, most of the time due to difference of opinion or perhaps misunderstanding. But the fact that two people are able to compromise and come to an agreement and accept each others' differences is in a sense on how people strengthen their bonds with each other.
I do not think that the bond gets stronger after each and every arguments or fight, but rather I think it just help to understand one another more. After all, conflict do helps to get your true thoughts/feelings out, so both of us can work on it together. If it is always "lovely" and "calm", I will never know what the other person is thinking.
P/S: Real friends are always going to be there by your side, even at times, when you tell them to leave...
#Randomthoughts
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