Tuesday, January 20, 2015

Day 2

Word to describe Day 2?

Amazing + Good mood ~
Still got not much appetite, maybe I am pregnant? My breakfast and lunch was Kimbap.
Dinner? Nothing, not really hungry anyway.

A girl who's used to being on her own?

- Expect her to do her own things often and without letting you know. It's not that it doesn't matter, it's just that she's learned to love doing what she wants, when she wants, and without asking permission or informing anyone.

- She will have a hard time letting you do things for her. It not something personal but she's just used to taking care of herself and it will be hard for her to live in a world where she's got someone else looking out for her in that way.

- Expect her to be stubborn, to always want things her way, and to fight you when she doesn't get it. Don't always give in to her but do let her win sometimes.

- She needs to be left alone often. Some good resting time for herself.

- She will question you, sometimes directly, sometimes implicitly about the stuffs that she wants to know. She will always want to know if they are real or if she's making things up in her head.

- Expect her to be headstrong, she will tell you, "I got this" more than you will want to hear. But she will get used to your offers to help. And in time, she will know how to let go of the tight grip she seems to have on everything.

- She will be guarded, she won't be keen on letting you in. She could be waiting to see if you are worth it, she's hoping that you are worth it.

- Expect her to be stingy with trust, to only give a little bit at a time. But everytime she gives you a little, it will feel like a big step for her. Cherish these big steps.

- She will come across as strong, maybe too strong for most people at first. This is her outer shell, she when you get to know her, you will know she's strong but soft, tough but kind.

- Expect her to be reserved, at least about the things that matter. Until you really get to know her, then she will let you see the untamed, raw and beautiful open version of her that she will let you fully discover.

- Expect her not to need you and not to believe in needing much of anything at all.

- Expect her to be scared or perhaps feeling tired. Scared to be hurt, scared to love and be loved. Scared that you will eventually hurt her or leave her and if and when that happens, she won't know who she was before.

- Being alone is her default, it's her comfort zone. Don't try to force her out.

#Trust her that whatever she do,she thinking for your sake

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