Generally, people are scared that by sincerely putting themselves out there will result in the other party finding out that they are too available, too anxious, too nerdy, too nice, too safe, too boring, not funny enough, not pretty enough, or even not some other person enough to be embraced...
Someone who hurt you is not going to have bad karma automatically, at least not in the immediate future. I know it only seem fair, but there are people out there that do cheat, betray and move on happily while the person they left is in shambles.
In the wooing period or even after getting together, the person who cares less will always have all the power, nobody wants to be the one who's more interested. But is this really the case for everybody? I doubt so...
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