The Difference Between Wanting Someone And Needing Them

"NEED" VS "WANT"
The difference between this two words, is it gargantuan?

To need someone basically implies dependency and a habitual sort of reliance.
Needing someone in times of crisis or extreme sadness is a part of being human, but needing that person constantly is suffocating. Of course, my such logic does not apply to children who always looking for their mum for milk or money.

What I think is that whenever you need someone, you tend to lose your independence and agency as a human being, why? Because you are constantly reliant on another person. Slowly losing the ability and desire to complete basic tasks by yourself, you forget what it's like to be alone with your thoughts and you can barely remember a time when you were capable of existing alone. It might sound like love to a lot people but seriously, it's not...

Falling into this neediness is not a conscious decision, it often happens quickly and discretely.
To "NEED" someone is like buying yourself a first class ticket to the land of codependence. First class ticket is expensive!

Wanting, on the other hand, is the first step in learning how to love someone. You want to be around the other person because they make you smile, they make you happier, and time goes by quicker when they are around. While you are fully capable of completing the tasks alone, you will still like to have the other person to be there with you, although you don't need them to be but you just want them to be.

When you want someone in your life, you want them there because life is more fun with them by your side. You want them there because you are a complete person with or without them, in addition to that, you know that they can make you happy. Basically, you don't need to use them as a crutch, you can stand alone.

So I think the difference between such need and want is the difference between codependence and love. This two words are very very different, and loving someone is much more beautiful and rewarding than leaning on them for all things, at all times, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year. If you are such a person, do me a favour, will you? Go f**k yourself...

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