Dating

Few years back...

To me...

Dating is just like a game with strange rules.
It's like a game in which you take the pain someone caused you and hand it off to someone else.
It's a game in which you get back the pain you have caused from someone else.
There's a day where I don't feel anything after losing that game.
And there's a day when I become a bloody mess even after winning that game.
It's not like I become a winner by being zealous.
It's a strange game.

At first glance, dating seems like a game between two players.
But there is always a strange "Deja Vu" between this and the previous relationship.

What about now? I don't know either...

But in this world, there's no such thing as a secure dating. There's a kind of dating which may feel safe, but that's only because we think that we like that person less than he/she likes us. A kind of ignorance.

Truth be told, happiness is not the absence of problems, but the ability to deal with them. Try imagine all the wondrous things that our mind might embrace if it weren't wrapped so tightly around our struggles.

I guess we will need to look at what we currently have, instead of what we have lost. Because it's not what the world takes away from us that counts but it's what we do with what we have left.