Sunday, March 16, 2014

Relationship ready or not?

I often think that people who end up falling in love in just a very short period are usually people with their lust associated with a relationship and with such relief of not being "FOREVER ALONE".

Of course, every human love the idea of being able to say or hear things like "I MISS YOU" or "I LOVE YOU" to/from someone, but I think a lot of us don't really understand that the real foundation of a relationship is actually not that glamorous, right?

We are all searching for someone whose demons play well with ours.


When people simply just rush to be with that someone, he/she often neglect to actually be with them.
What the hell is a relationship if you are not ready to commit and give yourself?

I don't think that, one needs to completely discard their sense of autonomy in a relationship.
After all, the people we choose to date should complement us, not complete us.

However, I do think that we are required to take the responsibility and also to remember that we are holding on to someone else's hearts in our hands.

So, don't play with it and don't rush it !

We may not be able to solve our significant other's problems, but at least what we can do is to try to be fully there.

Although at the end of the day, giving it all doesn't really have the power of fixing everything.
But, I am sure that it do have the power of letting him/her know that someone will always try to be there when things aren't okay.

Anybody agree with me? Any? Any?

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