Friday, March 7, 2014

In love with the idea of someone

Not long ago, I just enlighten someone regarding how she's in love with the idea of that someone rather than in love with that someone.
The conversation that get past midnight always do get a bit serious, isn't it?
And to add on to the mood, the conversation happened at upper seletar reservoir.
Eventually the conversation ended at Fajar Mac because we are simply too cold and tired.


She's never single for too long...
She don’t take the necessarily time to heal after a failed relationship.
She just jump from one to the next. (Including dating)
I’m not talking about a rebound or two, I’m talking about those who are completely incapable of being single for any extended period of time.

She knows that she don’t really love them, but she is still holding on to the love they give. She always convincing herself that she is in love when she know that what she is really in love with is a lot more superficial, but a lot harder to let go of at the same time.

She have a propensity to be unfaithful...
She can’t decide between two people, and she tend to weigh her options based on how one makes her feel better as opposed to the other. She is always out seeking someone better and another one better than the one before them.

She always fantasize that someone “better” will come along. She only seeks the traits of someone as opposed to the reality of someone. She is always looking for more.


There's more to it, but its going to make the whole entry look so long and bore.
Shall stop here :)

But at least she agreed to my point and thinks that it's time for her to figure out her life.
I did not manipluate her mind!
All these are based on what I see and experienced for the past few years, I might be wrong. :/

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