When people come into my life, it is hard to dissociate from the once shared moments and move on.
And often, I am forced to leave behind those whom my lives once revolved around with.
But, sometimes people do change, therefore there's a need for me to move on and simply grow.
As days turn into months and months into years, it may still be difficult for me to understand how to detach myself from the people from my past and to accept the reality that they will no longer be part of my present.
It is a difficult concept to grasp the people whom I consider to be staples in my lives who may not be here for me tomorrow. But I had learn to accept the idea that whether it's a lover, a coworker or a friend, his or her place in my lives may not always be meant to last forever.
From this acceptance, I have a deep appreciation for the experiences that I share with people that are still in my lives. Though it may be something sad to consider the end of a relationship, but it encourage me to appreciate the people in my life for the sheer reason that they still exist in my present.
People come and go but memories last forever. :)
These lessons people taught me and the hardships they help me navigate will never be forgotten.
These memories will become something permanent as part of me, and I will continue to shape myself.
Just because a relationship does not last does not mean that it is insignificant in any way.
It is not the amount of time these relationships last that is important, but instead, I think it is the ability to remember them that is important. Anybody agree with me? :)
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