I know paying for a girl or at least for the first few dates are some sort of chivalry or generous act to a lot of people, but this should never be something that a guy must do for every single outing/date.
Some women basically just take this as something that a guy should do, it's like saying "Hey, you should feel honor that I am having dinner with you, and therefore you are obligated to pay for me", isn't this very wrong?
I view such women as someone who is very dependent on her partner, who expects and demands for more than what a guy can offer, and who will whine about every single thing.
If she feels that she is entitled to all that he can offer, it is very likely that she won't appreciate him nor thank him for whatever he provide or give her in the future.
I am not saying all girl/women are like that, but from what I have been seeing and hearing, there is quite a significant figure of girl/women who have such mindset, and I actually do have some female friends that are exactly like this.
As usual, to each its own...
Each individual has a right to his/her own preference and belief.
Therefore, I can't say that I am 100% right. It's just my 2 cents of opinion :)
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